Thursday, October 29, 2009

Addressing the Gender Gap in College Aspirations


By Cate Doty (New York Times)

For every 100 American women enrolled in college, there are only 77 men. And for every 100 women who graduate with a bachelor’s degree, only 73 men accomplish that, according to data from the Postsecondary Education Opportunity.
At a College Board program Thursday afternoon, educators talked about the ways they are trying to close that college gender gap.

The gap is chalked up to a myriad of reasons. Traditional schools aren’t tuned in to the hands-on learning styles of boys; the media portrayal of smart young men generally is of socially awkward boys who don’t get dates to the prom; and young male students, particular at-risk youth, lack positive male models in and out of the classroom.

Melissa Kleiner, an assistant principal in Pittsburgh who led the program, said that throughout her career, she has seen capable male students get left behind as her female students move on to college. She also pointed out that as jobs in traditionally male-oriented professions, such as manufacturing, disappear, young men are left at a further disadvantage. “Boys and men will have to rethink their place in academia,” she said.

Ms. Kleiner set up a program for boys in her middle school, using frequent group sessions and field trips to examine what leadership is, and how the students can assume leadership roles. She hopes that the students will use these skills to move on to higher education. Her program starts with eighth-grade students, and she will work with those same boys until they graduate from high school.
Some of Ms. Kleiner’s motivational tactics might seem like recess, such as a ropes course in the Pennsylvania woods (during class time, to which other teachers might object) or watching a montage of clips from movies like “Gladiator” or “Saving Private Ryan.” But the film clips, in their own way, show men leading other men, which, Ms. Kleiner hopes will motivate her students to find leadership and success in their own lives.

“The challenge for all of us is how to engage these guys at a younger age,” said Nancy Beane, a college counselor from the Westminster Schools in Atlanta. Although her school has a 100 percent college attendance rate, she said, the male students still need extra attention. Guidance counselors at her school started a leadership program called Guise, which targets male students with similar tactics as Ms. Kleiner’s.

But outside the school walls, the obstacles for those male students are still there, and one of them is parents who have questioned why their sons should participate in such a new, untested program.

Dating Tips From The First Lady


From The New York Times:

By Rachel L. Swarns
First Lady Michelle Obama will appear on the December cover of Glamour Magazine, which is honoring her for her efforts to mentor young women.
Mrs. Obama, who is interviewed by CBS’s Katie Couric, offers advice on finding a role model and discusses the intense public scrutiny she faces in the White House. Ms. Couric is a new columnist for the magazine.
The first lady also offers some dating tips, which just might be a first for a first lady.

“Cute’s good,’’ Mrs. Obama told Glamour magazine. “But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, ‘Who are you as a person?’”

“Don’t look at the bankbook or the title,” she continued. “Look at the heart. Look at the soul…. When you’re dating a man, you should always feel good…. You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole.”

Friday, October 16, 2009

REGISTER NOW - Oct.19 YWCA Healthy Relationships Webinar

Monday, October 19th
4-5pm EST

Geared specifically for young women, ages 18 to 30, this webinar will provide a safe place to explore their own power to create a healthy intimate partner relationship-their unique psychology, how to assess the health of their relationships, and how to recognize less obvious forms of abusive behavior in their relationship. The featured speaker will be Dr. Janet Taylor, a psychiatrist based in New York City who is a frequent guest expert of CBS's Early Show, NBC's The Today Show, and CNN's Nancy Grace. She is also board chair of The Black Women's Health Imperative and mother of four daughters.